Ben 02 April 1990 Lund

1990 - 2009
LocationEastbourne
Age19 years
Cause of DeathNot Listed?
Date of Birth02/04/1990
Date of Death10/07/2009
Visitors3,832 since 23/07/2009
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R.I.P Ben we all miss you x

THE FAMILY of a teenager who died following an assault at an Eastbourne nightclub has paid tribute to him.
Ben Lund was assaulted at the Funktion Rooms in the early hours of Saturday morning and taken to Eastbourne District General Hospital.

The 19-year-old from Eastbourne died a short while later from his injuries.

A statement from his family read, "Our family are utterly devastated at the senseless loss of our beloved son, brother, grandson, nephew and cousin.

"Our beautiful, gentle Ben, who loved life and always had time and a smile for everyone. A fundamental part of our family has been torn from us and we will never stop loving and missing Ben.

"We really appreciate all of the messages of comfort, condolence and support from his friends, lovers and acquaintances - all those who met Ben were brushed with his kindness, he meant the world to all of us."

Police and ambulance crews were called to the club in Pevensey Road at around 12.45am on Saturday.

The club was cordoned off throughout the weekend and friends visited the scene to lay flowers.

One friend described him as 'A beautiful soul' and another added, "He will never be forgotten."

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*ღ.......ღ* *ღHeavenly *ღ.......ღ* *ღ shona sengupta. ..ღ*
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How will heaven be?
As far as I can see
It will have huge bells
And will be situated on clouds
It will have many golden wells
That will so often swell
Rain will be abundant
And the sun will shine all day long
Angels will play on the harp
The sweetest summer song
Music that will touch the heart
While those beneath will shed drops of sorrow
Little will they know what will happen on the morrow
But to them up above
As plain and clear it will be
As far as far as I can see
Yes there will be misty alleys
And lush green meadows
Fresh with the fragrant smell of spring
Winter will never be bitter
Summer never so hot
Autumn never so bare
And resources never so scarce
Food for all will be relished by all.
Grateful we’ll be as grateful can be
Mountains high and strong and brown
Surrounding that hidden land,
Beautiful and vast seas I see
There colour as blue as sapphire can be
And the white waves lashing upon the shore
Sitting on the flattened grey rocks
Who would not call it absolutely heavenly?
However it might actually be,
But can we still not see
There will lie behind this seen
A relieving feeling of bliss
For where not have we been
But is this not by all believed
That after one’s decease
This is the land of eternal peace
Where we all ultimately reach?
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Sylvie Belanger

July 10, 2011

Big Ben

I was a cook at Cavendish when Ben was there, he had sparkly eyes, that cheeky grin, and i have to admit, even at that age, he made us swoon! We all agreed he d be a lady killer as he grew older, my son is called Ben, and on odd occasions he d come into work with meYour Ben would play cars with him through the corridoor....my son called him "Big Ben" and thought he was the coolest thing since chocolate buttons! I have nt told my son about the loss of Ben, as he still remembers him and how can i explain the senseless way he died? I meant to write to you then, but .....there are no buts, im sorry i didnt.Please believe me, Cheeky Ben with his "Helloooooooooo miss!!": will never be forgotten, he was a smasher..... the staff that worked with me then, we raised a glass to Ben the other night, he is remembered. love and peace to you x

Donna Pitcher

December 19, 2010

God Bless Babe With Love xx

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Rachelle Whitfield (Friend)

August 2, 2010

kenyons

We were sad and shocked.Where to begin and end .I was trying to find you to get to see you this summer as we lost touch.Ben and my James grew up togeather in London.You helped us out.Ben a happy ,sunny baby and toddler ,they were good pals.
With love Judith ,Guy ,James and Ben KENYON

Judith Kenyon

June 20, 2010

Ben Lund....x

Hey hun, well i hope that u enjoyed ur birthday. i no that it didnt exsactly turn out like exspected but all ur friends and family where celebrating it for you, celebrating such a loveing young mans life that got removed from our world far too quickly. i will light a candel for you in my home tonight in the peace and quiet just because id like to feel ur presence once again or just to even talk to you. i hope that u are watching down and shining amongst ur family, u gotta gide them in this hard time right now. the pain never gets any easier we just learn how to cover the cracks. You are dearly loved my friend and that love will never stop burning for u. Sweet dreams angel & Happy 20th, no doubt ur up there with jason soo say hi to him for me please. All my love always and forver more xxx

Cloe Yates (Close Friend)

April 3, 2010

miss you ben, so much 1 love for the old times which will never be forgotten xxxxxxxxx
love,hugs&kissesxxxxxxx

Frann Jones

January 27, 2010

Today you got a good send off i hear :) Im so glad you deserved it, your mum spoke to highly of you ! You were a ledgend and always will be.
May you live on in peoples hearts and through music they listen to.
Sleep tight dude
xxx

Zoe (Family Friend)

August 8, 2009

we all miss you ben, still cant get my head round that this has actually happened, your in my thought everyday, love always xx

Emma Morton

July 31, 2009

Gone Too Soon

G od took you gently by the hand,
O n wings of love to another land,
N estled in the clouds up high,
E ternal live he gave you in the sky,

T he ones left behind have broken hearts,
O h they did not want you to depart,
O ne day you will all meet again,

S aving a place and no more pain,
O n wings of love in Heaven above,
O ur hearts are filled with lots of love,
N ever more then a heartbeat away,

Gone too soon but remembered every single day.

Jennie Sim

July 23, 2009

For My Loved Ones

I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me. (By Anon)

Donna Johnson Nee Parr

July 23, 2009
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